Influence? A word that has so much meaning and can make such a impact whether it be positive or negative. How do others influence us? How do we influence our children,family,and friends and community and even strangers? Who has influenced you in your life? In what ways? This is really something to sink in and think about.I have to say that God,my parents, and a couple of families that me and my husband our close too. They go to our church.They are like family. That is what I was thinking,when we got asked this question in sunday school.
Then you think how do I influence my children and people all around me? How will we influence our adopted child on God and family life,what will they see so special about us as a family? What will she carry on as she grows up? We as parents deep inside wonder ,How will she or he adapt to us and what changes will we need to make?That is normal,and as long as we know that it will have some adjustments,but in a postive way. Afterall the plan is in god's hand and not everyone's plan is the same. I think it is meant for us to have different experiences so we have different influences. It would be pretty boring if we all did and acted the same and if we all had the same path of life. How would we learn?
How could we influence someone elses decision to adopt a needy orphan child? Sometimes adoptions may not always go as smooth as we want, sometimes life doesn't always go as planned. I think it is important for us as a family to try and keep a positive attitude about the process, we never know when we may have a influence on someone's decision or actions.
I hope that you find our page to be a positive influence in your life. There are bumpy roads at times but we are sure in the end it will be worth every piece of paperwork and waiting. I know that our boys have made a positive impact in our life and vise versa, it is exciting to think of the influence that our daughter will have on our family and many others that walk into her life and the influence that we will have. I hope that someday our story and our lives might be a positive influence in anothers life. While we are here on earth,god is writing our story.I want our story and lives to be a wonderful influence. Since we have begun the adoption process,I feel that now another chapter is being written.
Our circle of love is already growing,the love for her is here now all we need is our special daughter,until more news we are just praying and of course WAITING......